slaving away in the kitchen cooking food for a guest you invited while you are sitting on the couch flipping through your ipad or gadget
why cant you help me with the cooking? why cant you help me clean AS i cook?
YOU invited the guest but i do the work
and it is my job?
that IS NOT NORMAL
even if i cook better, or i am a skilled cook…
is cleaning a skill as well?
is assisting a skill?
Understandable, if i was a stay-at-home mom….ok i can say “that” is my job. BUT then again, don’t i get an 8-5 or something? I don’t know i just cannot see any reason why the kitchen is STILL deemed the woman’s place in some cultures…. I don’t feel comfortable observing such situations either. i want to speak out but i would probably be shunned as being too “American” or something
AS FOR ME…. all i know is i WILL not slave away in the kitchen FOR NO ONE. As much as i love to cook and clean, it is not to be left for me to do while anybody chills on the couch.
To each his own. Whomever i partner with would be assisting me in the kitchen EVERYDAY. We both have full-time jobs. cleaning and cooking is not one of them, so i do not see any reason why one person should do it all alone. And vice versa if He cooks, i clean and assist. And ALL my boys are going to learn that there is no sex deemed to cook or clean or take out the trash.
Yes. take out the trash. it’s not a “man’s job” why are we calling it THIS? how hard is it to take out the trash??? No sex gets the easier job, no sex is deemed to be "prepared to cook for her husband"
Sorry no such thing. Its quite unnerving to watch i cannot imagine how furious i would be
Its time we make a change.